ADHD Mums – Being a mum is hard. Being a mum of an ADHD child is much harder. You did not cause your child’s ADHD. Unfortunately, you can make the ADHD symptoms worse, through ignorance of the root causes of your ADHD child’s difficulties. If you have an ADHD child you have probably realised that the regular parenting strategies simply do not work for your ADHD child. In fact, they often backfire, making the situation worse.
ADHD Mums – Being a mum is hard. Being a mum of an ADHD child is much harder. You did not cause your child’s ADHD. Unfortunately, you can make the ADHD symptoms worse, through ignorance of the root causes of your ADHD child’s difficulties. If you have an ADHD child you have probably realised that the regular parenting strategies simply do not work for your ADHD child. In fact, they often backfire, making the situation worse.
ADHD mums with ADHD children constantly live with the intense daily pressure of feeling they need to excel and constantly expecting to fail. They are tormented every day and live with crippling shame, intense guilt and anxiety. They constantly feel frazzled and unable to explain why their dumb ADHD brain that won’t focus, to those who need to know. It’s totally draining.
I have ADHD, Anxiety and Dyscalculia. And I have 5 ADHD children. I live daily with lots of the internal and external struggles having ADHD can bring:
Constantly dissatisfied with achievements (lack of)
Difficulty with consistency and follow-through
Super hyper-focused on a goal or giving up very quickly
Intense shame and guilt
Hobbies and interests changing rapidly
Digital data in a cluttered mess
Complex family dynamics
Depression and anxiety
Piles of stuff everywhere
Time management difficulties
There is even less information on the nitty gritty, feet on the ground, how to live your life, moment to moment, with ADHD. There is almost no information about why the recommended ADHD skills work. My courses and ADHD resources fill this huge void.
As a Professional Organiser and ADHD Coach, I saw the huge changes that my clients created, and maintained, not just for one day, but for years. I realised that the simple ADHD truths and tools that I shared with my clients were actually profound wisdom.
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Supplementary notes
Let me explain further some of the ideas that I mentioned in this video. While charts may work for some children, even some ADHD children, they may not work long-term. The ADHD child needs instant gratification; a small reward every day for a certain time period. Due to their poor working memory, they may forget to fill in the chart, and may start to negotiate (argue) with you. If you have ADHD, your working memory may impact your ability to stay focused on the chart idea for long periods of time. Two weeks, is often too long for the ADHD child.
Many experts encourage do using charts to assist with bedtime routines. This never worked for me since I always had to be the one who stayed focused on how many days were crossed off, and this was an almost impossible job with my poor working memory. I waited until my son was old enough to take ownership of his own charts, and then he could cross the days off himself...This sometimes worked, and often didn't work...
Regarding my son brushing his teeth with no toothpaste, I strictly limit my son's daily sweet intake. has no holes so toothpaste isn't necessary, maybe also mention that its because you limit his sweet intake.
PS. If you, like me, hate charts, who says you need to create charts? You are the perfect mother for your child. Your know what you need to do. Asking for help, and following guidance has its place. However, if the advice doesn't feel right to you, it probably isn't right for you. It is time that you started to follow your intuition. It is time to take back your authority.
This downloadable pdf explains more about sleep and the ADHD brain
Disclaimer: I am usually brutally honest :) I take no responsibility for the advice given in this video. The purpose of my advice in this video is to expand your self-awareness, and to help you to understand that when you hit a brick wall, there are many ways to get through that wall. This is flexible thinking, one of the 11 executive function skills vital for your and your ADHD child's success.
If you have hit a brick wall in the area of getting your ADHD child to get to bed, fall asleep, or to sleep through the night, or any other variation, please understand that there are many safe ways to teach and support your ADHD child get to sleep.
This lecture is taken from my Udemy course, "ACCREDITED How to Manage Your ADHD Child's Behavour."
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