Theories of conflict, pathways to resolution

What causes negotiation breakdowns and escalations of conflict? Are disagreements, difficult conversations and such problems at work something to be avoided? Or, is human conflict an inevitable and indeed necessary feature of healthy organisations and societies? This week we examine some of the core principles used to address social conflict across a range of different contexts; from interpersonal situations through to workplace conflict and also conflict in and between communities. You will learn some of the common reasons why deadlocks and other difficulties emerge and why negotiations sometimes stall and even ‘break-down’.

Building and using a skillset: Moving from ‘knowing to doing’

The renowned 20th century psychologist Erik Erikson once said that ‘the more you know yourself, the more patience you have for what you see in others’. Eriksen’s words ring true for negotiators; it is crucial that negotiators come to know their own “hot buttons” and to be self-aware - of values, biases, beliefs and the effect of certain behaviours. This week you will be introduced to several methods of self-assessment to help you gain that self-awareness. One of these tools will help you identify what is called your ‘conflict style’. By completing a self-assessment students will become aware of, and then consider the likely implications of, their preferred conflict styles on their interpersonal effectiveness. To add context and aid discussion you will review several organisational cases that highlight how a lack of self-awareness can lead to unresolved organisational conflicts and can have serious consequences on both individuals and on organisations.

The three negotiations: Content, process, and relationship

Within every situation labelled “a negotiation” there will often exist a number of ‘subordinate’ negotiations that must be successfully navigated to achieve a successful outcome. In addition to the stated negotiation agenda - the topic at the centre of the discussion - we can identify two other negotiations. Firstly, there is a negotiation that takes place around the parties’ current or future relationship, and secondly, there is a negotiation that takes place around the process that will be followed. While these subordinate negotiations are clearly very important, they are often largely ignored when negotiators are planning. In this week’s session you will learn about what are called “the three negotiations” - content, process and relationship. You will learn how to identify process problems in negotiation and how to bring a stalled negotiation back on track. You will learn how to build trust in negotiation and how to preserve or enhance your relationship with your negotiation counterparts without compromising your own interests.

When context matters: negotiating across a cultural divide

How should negotiators adjust their approach when working across a cultural divide? We address the critical question of culture this week and look at a number of key issues faced by negotiators when working across cultures. You will learn how cultural values manifest as different expectations and in communication differences in negotiation. You will learn about how to read a room for subtle messages. You will also learn about the concept of ‘saving face’ in negotiation and its importance especially in Asian countries and how to adjust your style to account for cultural differences and ambiguous situations.

Coping with complexity: From multi-party negotiation to conflict transformation

How do we cope with complexity in negotiation and conflict resolution? What makes certain situations more complex and more difficult to resolve than others? To answer these questions we consider the following issues: the length of time involved, the number of issues under review, the number of parties involved and how ‘invested’ they are in a particular outcome. This week you will learn what makes certain situations more complex and how to deal with this complexity. We study the role of sequencing in negotiation (breaking a large negotiation down into a series or sequence of smaller negotiations) and you will also learn about an approach called 3D negotiation in which a holistic negotiation strategy is emphasized where what happens away from the table (changing the context) is seen as a crucial variables influencing the final outcome. This week you will also study how complex conflicts can be redefined, reframed and ultimately transformed an exciting new direction in the field of conflict resolution.